“Brothers, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you will not grieve like the rest, who are without hope.”
In plain words: Paul wants us to understand what happens to Christians who have died, so that when we lose someone we grieve with hope, not with the feeling that everything is lost.
What 1 Thessalonians 4:13 means.
Paul doesn’t say don’t grieve. He says grieve with hope, because death doesn’t get the last word for those in Christ.
Common questions about 1 Thessalonians 4:13
Does this mean Christians shouldn't cry or feel sad when someone dies?
No. Paul never tells us to hold back tears. Grief is love with nowhere to go, and even Jesus wept when His friend Lazarus died [[John 11:33-35]]. Paul's point is about how we grieve, not whether we do. Christians cry, miss people, and feel the loss deeply. But they do not grieve like people who have no hope at all, because death is not the end of the story for those who belong to Jesus.
Apply it today: Let yourself cry, or say out loud who you miss, without rushing yourself to feel better.
What is the "hope" Paul is talking about, and what does "sleep" mean?
"Sleep" is a gentle word Paul uses for death, because sleep is not the end. You wake up. The next verse explains the hope: Jesus died and rose again, and those who trust Him will be raised too [[1 Thessalonians 4:14]]. This hope is not a wish or a guess. It rests on something that happened, because Jesus really came back from the grave. Because He lives, those who belong to Him will be with Him again.
Apply it today: Read 1 Thessalonians 4:14-18 slowly today and notice how Paul ends by telling people to encourage one another.
What about someone I love who died and may not have followed Jesus?
This is one of the hardest questions, and it is okay to ask it. Scripture says salvation comes through Jesus [[John 14:6]]. It also shows that God is perfectly just and full of mercy, and it does not hand us a list of who is in or out. No one can tell you where a particular person stands, and we should not guess. The Bible asks a question we can lean on: will the Judge of all the earth do right? [[Genesis 18:25]]
Apply it today: Tell God honestly what you feel about the person you miss, and ask Him for peace.
Ask anything about it.
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Live it today.
Thank God today for the hope of the resurrection. Grieve, but grieve with hope.
Pray it back.
Father, I grieve, but I am not hopeless. Death does not get the last word.
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