“If it is possible on your part, live at peace with everyone.”
In plain words: Do all you can, as far as it is up to you, to get along peacefully with the people around you.
What Romans 12:18 means.
As far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. You can’t control them, but you can control your part.
Common questions about Romans 12:18
Does this mean I have to get along with everyone, no matter what?
Not exactly. Paul wrote "if it is possible," so he knew peace does not always happen. Some people refuse peace, and some people are not safe to be around. Living at peace never means putting up with abuse or pretending you were not hurt. If someone is hurting or threatening you, getting safe comes first. What the verse asks is that you do your share: be honest, be kind, and don't start or feed a fight. The verses around it, [[Romans 12:17-21]], show what that looks like.
Apply it today: Write down what is yours to do in one hard relationship, and what is not.
What does doing my part look like in real life?
Your part is what you can control: your words, your tone, and your choices. It can mean saying sorry first when you were wrong. It can mean listening before you answer. It can mean refusing to gossip, not answering an insult with an insult, and letting go of a grudge. Jesus said peacemakers are blessed in [[Matthew 5:9]]. Making peace is active work, not just staying quiet. It often starts with one small, humble step.
Apply it today: Say one kind word today to someone you have had tension with.
What if the other person won't make peace?
Then you can still do your part and let go of the rest. You cannot force anyone to change. In [[Romans 12:19]], Paul says not to take revenge and to leave justice in God's hands. That can be a relief, because you don't have to win or carry it all. You can stay kind, keep healthy limits, and pray for the person. Some friendships stay broken for a long time. Doing your part honestly is still the right thing.
Apply it today: Pray for someone who has wronged you, then let go of one thing you cannot control.
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Live it today.
Do your part today to make peace with someone you’re at odds with.
Pray it back.
Lord, help me do my part to live at peace with everyone.
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